Introducing

a way oracle guidebook

essentially, you are the guide, this are just prompts to guide your journey

guidebook

introduction

a note from behbeit

Warning: This deck and guidebook were created by a human being—one who is simply out here existing, learning, and growing. I offer this to you with an open heart, in the hope that it will inspire you to cultivate your own practice of deep connection—both with your body and the stories held within it. May it help you acknowledge and release what is ready to be released.

That said, I ask for your grace. If you come across any misprints or imperfections, please know that I tried my best to make this as seamless as possible, while at the same time, surrendering to the reality that within this human experience, perfection is an illusion.  


With that, I offer you: a way.

about a way

This deck was born out of having to find my own way after losing my mum. Before Her dying, I thought I had lost all I would. We know that our parents will die, but never really know, until they do. Change is constant. Loss, happens when you least expect it and in ways you may never have imagined.

Desperate for a way to maintain connection with my mum, I presented her with my favourite tarot decks, asked her which tarot deck she would want to use to communicate with me. With the deck she chose, I communicated with her for years, asking her questions, for advice, for affirmations, messages, signs, anything to feel connected. Using the tarot as prompts I also wrote her letters, created art for her and cultivated a practice of remembering and releasing. This deck is an extension of that.

I’ve taken words I’ve written, photos I’ve taken and art I’ve created to create this oracle deck, and so much more I can’twait to share. The images and art in this oracle deck, are a visual representation of the last 8 years. Over this time I travelled, creating my own pilgrimage, led by an internal compass so far removed from me, i had no idea until it recently, that i was travelling the path of my haplogroup L1b13a via a series of last minute field trips of self discovery, healing and renewal from Nubia to Spain with any stops in-between.

Each card carries a message, a sensation, and a practice—bridging the seen and unseen, the past and future, the self and the collective.

This deck is not about providing a prescribed method for processing your grief, it is about honouring grief’s process, giving it space, and allowing the body to guide you toward healing. Whether you are mourning a loss, navigating change or uncovering ancestral wounds, these cards are here to support you.

Finding a way through hard times and grief while deeply personal, often involves a mix of surrender and action — accepting what is, while also seeking movement forward. It can feel like a thick invisible veil, disturbing your vision. Making it even harder to move forward without parts of you that you’ve grown accustomed to, that have always been there.

I found it (and still do) hard to move forward without my mom, my babies that are no longer babies, old friends, ways of being, and so on, but I do. We, do. Somehow we find our way.

Watching my mom navigating the world as a black single mother, working so hard to make it seem easy instilled I'm me that there is always a way. So did her saying it over and over again in her daily prayers, pleading for the way to be shown, to be made, and ISTG, each and every time, a way was made, even if it's only made by taking one small step at a time, a way always appeared.

A way oracle deck does not come with rigid definitions. The images are fluid and will tell a different story each and every time you encounter them, just as emotions shift and stories evolve. You can use the deck alone, as a companion to other oracle and tarot decks, or as a mirror for whatever you are experiencing in the moment.

Multiple layers/themes of grief can be applied to your reading for deeper ex-ploration, below area few:

Ancestry + Lineage

These cards explore the grief carried through generations and the wisdom within our ancestral support system

Embodied Grief

These cards explore the physicality of grief and the ways it manifests in the body.

Transformation + Release

These cards focus on the process of letting go , evolving and embracing new forms of existence after loss.

Ritual + Ceremony

These cards center on creating sacred spaces for grief, honoring loss and inte-grating emotions

Cycles + Elements

These cards connect grief to nature’s rhythms and the elements that hold our sorrow

"A Way" suggests there isn’t just one path, but many. The journey through grief is non-linear, winding, and unique to each person. Sometimes the way is found in stillness, sometimes in seeking, and sometimes in unexpected moments of grace.

acknowledgements

I used to talk myself into circles often, and listen as others put circles around me, barricading me in my/ their vision. Their circles, much smaller than the ones I created for myself but, I found ways to fit.

Now, circles I talk myself into expand into other circles that reach out to other circles. Stepping further away I see how the circles connect, making fractals and building community.

Within these circles, I am planted alongside other plants that reach for me from their root. They take what they need, and feed me with just the right amount of nutrients, strength- ening my own ability to meet my own needs, together we grow gardens and build community. Together our circles expand into ancestral realms, where our people hold space for us, as we make our way. That's what me and my people do and for that, I will be eternally grateful.

My mum + dad. They have to be pulling strings and for that, asé.

Ximuna + Kahero, ugh. I’ve known love, but never like this. Thank you.

To my soul sibling, d’bi, thank you for the way you cover my feet with soil. Tuku, the way you water me, is unmatched. Karin, thank you for always reminding me who I am. Rina, for always pushing me forward, thank you, more please. Raven, thank you for shining.

All my friends and family, thank you for the light you shine my way, your encouragement and support throughout the years has meant the world to me!!!

Finally, THANK YOU. Thank you for your support over the last few years. The check ins, the encounters out in the world. Truthfully I was overwhelmed by the support I received from the witches brew community following my mom's passing.Your support through that kept me connected to this world.

Also, thank you to the new friends I will make along this journey.

Thank you

Thank you

Thank you

so much!

Enclosed you will find 71 cards: 69 Oracle Cards created with so much love and intention by me, behbeit. 1 card detailing an upcoming project, 1 blank card for note taking, bookmarking or whatever you choose, and a 100 page booklet

using this deck

how to use this deck

You will find new meaning in the cards each time you use them. You will be surprised by how you may notice something that didn’t come up the last time you received that card in a reading.

The cards are forgiving, and lend themselves to each situation you encounter, never punishing, they are intended to shift your focus, give you room to think about things differently, affirm your position, give gentle guidance and help you move through whatever it is you are grieving or letting go of.

Shuffle the deck with an open heart and a willingness to explore your grief journey.

Draw a single card for daily reflection or use one of the sample oracle spreads that follow in this section

Engage with the cards on a physical level if it resonates, this may involve breath work, movement, vocalization, or stillness.

Journal your thoughts and physical sensations as you work with each card.

sample deck spreads

Cycles of Grief 1

Head - what thoughts are shaping my grief?

Heart - What emotions need to be acknowledged?

Body - where am I feeling this the most?

Ancestral Connection

What grief have I inherited?

What wisdom do my ancestors offer?

How can I honour this lineage?

What can I release?

Cycle of Grief 2

What am I holding onto?

What is shifting within me?

What must I surrender?

What wisdom does my body hold?

What is being reborn within me?

the cards

intro to the cards

Again, I’d like to reiterate, there is no system, just possibility in whatever you see when you encounter each card. These are prompts, but in no way define the meaning of these cards. You’ll see, each time you go to them, they will give exactly what you need in that moment. They are not punishing cards, they illuminate areas where you can challenge yourself to push forward. I was able to generate a lot of joy for myself when I started making these cards, even when examining all the grief I was experiencing. I hope that even in your darkest time, you too will be able to cultivate a practice of examining your grief and find a way to release it.

a way

a way, when there doesn’t seem to be any

possible way,

a

way,

ANY

way

appears

abandon

Don’t be reckless

in your

abandon.

But

abandon it all,

even for a

moment.

alchemy

Loss changes

you, as water

changes earth.

In that change,

something new

is forged out of

the mud.

altar

You area a

sacred space,

a space to

return to.

ancestorship

A quenching of

spirit

An offering

apology

Unspoken words,

regret, and the

longing for closure.

Sometimes,

forgiveness is for

yourself.

begin

Begin

A new

chapter is

on the

other side

of this

carnal

Be your

whole

self

always

ceremony

Celebrate

what has

grown wings

deliverance

A sacred

release, a

moment of

surrender to

the forces

greater than

yourself.

depth

Grief is vast. Do

not fear its

depths—that is

where

transformation

begins.

despair

The sky is

always

clearest, when

it becomes

real

earth

Grief needs grounding.

The body must feel the

weight of sorrow to

release it.

endurance

Do not forget

to feed your

journey

everything

Grief touches all things. It

reshapes your world,

changes your perception,

expands your heart,

holding everything at

once.

evolution

ou, Your

world are a

changing

thing

fear not

honestly, have no fear

feast

you

are

the

feast

focus

on whatever

you want

free

Space between,

the moment life

loosens, even

briefly

glass case of emotion

Be gentle with your

release, be tender

with your pain

grace

Offer

yourself

compassion

in your grief.

Soften your

strong.

good will

Know that

you are

loved

grief

It is heavier

than the world

You will know

it when you are

met with it

hope

A flicker,

a whisper—even when

unseen.

horizon

A new day exists

beyond this, look

forward.

hyphae

Connection beneath

the surface. Grief

links us in unseen

ways

inheritance

There are

kingdoms within

you

inner Child

hold them with care

journey

the road travelled well

kingdom

You are the ruler of

your own grief. No one

else can dictate how

you mourn.

lineage

Don’t forget

where you come

from

lovers

Till we meet again

mehtageneology

Beyond

Bloodlines — grief

and belonging

we exist

mine

This grief

is yours.

Claim

it, name it,

hold it.

mirror

what do you see

o the surface

inside?

moving on

movement is not betrayal

new day

We

can

hope.

new moon

Beginnings

born from

darkness.

offering

Feed your

people

open

Allow grief to

move through

you.

Resistance

only deepens

the wound.

origin

Don’t let them

tell you

different

Passage

A

doorway,

a liminal

threshold.

portal

Portal

a gateway to

trans-

formation

quiet

Silence

holds its

own

healing

rebirth

emerge

you are

becoming

reflection

what do you see?

release

The weight is not

meant to be carried

forever.

renewal

a slow

return to

yourself

resist

by all means necessary

return

each time ,

you meet it

differently

ripe

A moment ready for

transformation.

Something within you is

prepared.

sadness

 heavy presence,

an ache in the

bones. Sadness is

not a problem to be

solved but an

emotion to be felt.

Let it move through

you without

resistance.

self blame

Grief often carries

guilt—"What if I had done

more?" Release the burden

of responsibility for what

was never in your control.

Forgiveness begins with

you.

shadow

The unseen aspects of

grief—the anger, the

shame, the unresolved

wounds. Turn toward

your shadow with

curiosity, not fear.

shelter

Grief needs a

safe space. Find

the people,

places, or

practices that

offer you refuge

sojourn

A temporary

journey, a period of

wandering. Trust the

movement, even

when the

destination is

unclear.

storm

Let it

rage

it

will

pass.

stuck

A feeling of being frozen

in time, unable to move

forward. Change begins

with the smallest shift—

breathe, stretch, take one

step.

summon

Call out for

what you

need, in song,

in prayer in

joy, call out,

It will fall from

the sky

surrender

Let it

wash over

you

survival

Forever

making

a way

temple

within you is the

home you seek

outside of yourself

thank you

thank you,

more

please

the valley

It’s not

always the

worst place

to be

truth

by

whatever

means

necessary

unseen

Grief hides and

Returns, playing

in the

shadows

waiting

wall

There to help us

choose a

different

direction

the water bearer

Be

mindful

not to

pour

from an

empty

vessel